Monday, September 3, 2012


SOME SIMPLE WAYS OF MAKING A WOMAN REACH CLIMAX


When it comes to satisfying a woman, most men are very selfish. They are mainly concern about their ejaculation. A lady name Lorena Bobbitt when questioned by police as to why she cut off her husband’s penis, responded, “HE ALWAYS HAS AN ORGASM AND DOESN’T WAIT FOR ME. IT’S UNFAIR.”


And some doctors claimed that, for a huge proportion of women, it was 'normal' to have no experience of orgasm. Indeed, as late as the 1970s there were still some who maintained that the female orgasm didn't exist – and was simply a myth made up by the media. Because sex was just about Men ejaculating.


All that has changed now These days most women want orgasms.These days, medical opinion is that every woman should be able to have orgasms – if she wants to. Furthermore, the view of most sex experts is that the majority of women are capable of multiple orgasms – if they wish to have them. In general, the ability to have multiple orgasms is greater in more mature


You see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penis rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic, or even if they don't particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not like this. FEMALE ORGASM ISN'T A PUSH-BUTTON RESPONSE. THE CONDITIONS HAVE TO BE RIGHT.


Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax easily:



WORK ON HER HEAD:
If a lady’s mind is on so many things, no matter how hard u try to give her orgasm will just be wasting your time. u only will be only one enjoying it. her head must be home before you can make her reach climax. U know your partner, u should know how to make her head be home..



COMFORT:
Make the place comfortable enough, sometimes it should be away from the some, where u know her sexual screening will not be heard by kids or family around. No in a room where u hve people. She might just allow u to have your way but that doesn’t mean she enjoy it..



ASK HER AND LISTEN :
Sometime during sex, this ladies say things, u have no choice than to listen to what they are saying.it will be stupid if she is saying”HARDER, HARDER n u are doing SLOWER. This kind of non cohesion can spoil the fun. If she isn’t saying anything, then ask her. Ask her the best sex position she wants to enjoy.Bfr u ask, u hve to pretend to be the bad guy,so she can come out as the bad girl, if u are quoting bible then, that woman wont open up ooooooo.



TOUCHING IS NOT ROBBING:
This is where pipo get foil-play wrong..Romance isn’t robbing ,it is TOUCHING. Touching involve smooching and squeezing .don’t lick her neck, u suck it.as u touch her body, u pull flesh along softly. The breast isn’t met to be rob but squeeze. Even when you are sucking the breast, u squeeze along.



MAKE THEM FEEL BEING WANTED AND APPRECIATED:
The only way to do that is to appreciate their inner part. sucking a woman’s clitoris means a lot to her. They feel love n wanted. they fell you have great respect for them..a wife or woman beater can never go low to her suck his wife clitoris. So doing it ,make them feel respected. Women love been in-charge. going low on them is an opportunity for them to be in-charge. The things women appreciate and that give them Joy sometimes are the stupid things guys will never do



IMPOSSIBILITY IS NOTHING

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

- Do you know that women feel more inwardly sexy than men.

- Do you also know ,it is your duty as a husband to bring out this excitement in your marriage to life.

YOU ARE WELCOME TO MY BLOG.

This blog is specifically dedicated to married couple, most especially women and those intending. For several years many have not cared to know the major issues that energizes their marriage, It is viewed as a taboo to talk about it, but then marriages have crumbled as a result of sealed lips.

On this blog I shall attempt to bring out raw issues for us to discuss, describing vividly what should be done and how it is done. I shall try as much as possible not to sound obscene or pornographic. I will also backup my discussion with quotes, pictures and extracts from other notable blogs for your maximum satisfaction.

My experience on fun, love, caring and what have you dates back to those good old days when I was young naive and not married. My letting out is a attempt to free my mind and to be forgiven.

All the scenario I shall bring to you, is not meant to denigrate women, but to bring out to life the foolishness of men towards his wives. To enjoy your marriage sexually and otherwise, you must be prepared to attend to your wife’s psychological and natural needs.

In 1985 I was young and interested in having relationship with older girls, but on this day I got more than enough as I was beacon upon by a highly matured lady whom I discovered was 15yrs older. I embraced the opportunity and took the bull by the horn . Like my friend would say GO FOR THE JUGGLAR. It was really a trying time for me. My popularity was growing in the city, but my parent mustn’t know. It played out well and non of my family members ever knew .The period taught me a lot that has helped me in my marriage so far.

At the initial stage of my affair with the said lady,I struggle to come to terms with what I meant to her, she was so blod as to place my passport photo against hers on her table. It frightened me but I was happy in my mind . she had other bigger and matured male friends who visited and took her out, she maneuvered them like children , but on the other hand she behaved like a child towards me, there by making me look like an adult.

I wondered why she wanted me to treat her like a pet, she cries and sleeps up in my arms, I was always confused and I couldn’t tell any one.

We dated for nine years, but that didn’t stop me from having other younger girlfriends, this she never knew because I was so tactical and also showed commitment towards her. About five years into the relationship ,there comes the answer to my ponder. You might wonder why I stayed that long in the relationship. To be candid I enjoyed it , she was so good to me , loving and kind, but I knew we shall never be married.=moving ahead, just as I was realizing my importance as one who filled up the loneliness in her, she came up to me one night and asked if I had ever thought why she loved me, I pondered a little and said jokingly I am not your husband, come and see, she fell in my arms and cried uncontrollably for hours saying how I wished. Those were the words that captured for me for another four years, I became a young husband and she confessed to me all her sorry of loneliness, that I got to know how women wanted to be treated.

As a single lady she also had lots of single lady friends and women who had troubled marriages, I heard their discussion of bitterness and despair and the level some of them to go to satisfy their lost expectation.

At the end of the relationship I had grown more matured and any affair I was into was always difficult for me to move out of. In fact I became a highly sorted material, ladies came to me as the most sexiest man in town ,both married and single ladies fell on both side, I moved on with all recklessness with the false believe that I was satisfying their emotion( forgive me o heaven).

- Other interesting scenario to add flavor to this blog is a female friend who sorted me out after 15 years she trailed me through three states before finally getting me, or is it the one who move to the city I was hiding so she could have a feel of me, these are married women with troubled marriages. In the case of the former, she was my girlfriend way back in our school days, we so liked each other, I wouldn’t want to use the word love, because it’s the one that can die for you that loves you. She did everything right as a good woman to a husband, but then it was a school affair. I later came to discover years after, she had a different picture in her head. Some years later I got a note through her cousin, I was happy to see the latter, in it she had dreamt of a marriage with me. Thirteen years later there was a phone call from the same lady, I was shocked, she said she was in my city and asked if I could see her. I was already married and I don’t go out at night, but that was when she wanted to see me , well I found my way to see her, we discussed old times, she told me all her.

troubles with her husband who was a womanizer and never stayed at home. Even though he provided everything they needed, she was love lost. In fact she fell short of telling me she was going out with one of her husbands friend, who bear the same name as mine. In the course of the meeting which lasted while into the night I respected her matrimonial status even though I was tempted, but when she noticed I wasn’t going for the bad one she made the move which I advised against, I told her to go back , that I will be her telephone companion. whenever she felt down she should call me so that we can talk.

She tried all I advised and today she is enjoying her marriage. What I am saying in essence is that men should try to recognize the feelings of their wives, take time to understand their emotional problem and you will have a happy home.

Just as you have erection and the urge for fun so do the women, but they are not expected to run around seeking fun just like men do.

As for the women folks you have the responsibility of making yourself happy, do not be a second fiddle in the act of fun making, express yourself ,make your husband realize his weakness and I bet you he will strive to make it up to you. Do not feel if you display somethings you know he will begin to suspect you. Initially he might be surprised but because he enjoyed it he will never ask a question rather he will secretly crave for more. For those intending to be married from the first day of your marriage display your desire to have a good fun as a woman. And for the man teach your wife those things you suspect she is shy of or do not know.

I say all this, because sealed lips have separated good couples.

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